WORKING NOTES ON THIS LINE:  Plymouth Pilgrim has Joseph's birthdate as 1723 and being married to Abigail Hebard. Two other sources, have his birthdate as 1732 and married to Elizabeth Storm. I have changed his birthdate to 1732 and listed both of them as wives. 
Both Mike Wolfsbane and Kathie Halvey have the 1732 and Elizabeth Storm information.
There is definetly something wrong here.

There had to be two wives because Elizabeth would have been too old to have had all children???  Which kids with which wives?

1 [1] Joseph Cary b: February 22, 1731/32 in Windham, CT d: 1814 in Fishkill, Dutchess, NY Source: December 10, 1999 Some info on this line is from Kathie Halvey: Furrypawz3@aol.com

.. +Abigail Hebard m: December 10, 1747

*2nd Wife of [1] Joseph Cary:

.. +Elizabeth Storm b: Bef. February 1732/33 in Fishkill, Dutchess, NY d: Bef. 1814 m: July 06, 1755 in Rombout, Dutchess County, NY

.. 2 Isaac Cary

...... +Maria

.. 2 Joanna Cary

.. 2 Martha Cary

...... +John Rowland

.. 2 Mary Cary

...... +Stephen Doty/William Stephens

.. 2 Mathew Cary

...... +Joanna Way

.. 2 Nathan Cary

...... +Cathy Griffen

.. 2 Phebe Cary Source: December 1999 All info on this line is from Kathie Halvey: Furrypawz3@aol.com

...... +Gabriel Smith b: 1740 d: 1838

.. 2 Sarah Cary

.. 2 Susan Cary

...... +Joseph McNary

.. 2 William Cary

...... +Elizabeth Bloom

.. 2 Joseph Cary b: 1760 in Fishkill, Dutchess Co, NY d: November 11, 1826 in Coeymans, NY

...... +Elizabeth Vincent

.. 2 Samuel Cary b: March 15, 1764 in Fishkill, Dutchess Co, NY d: March 02, 1818 in Coeymans, NY Source: February 1999 Some info on this line is from Mike Wolfe: www.home.earthlink.net/~wolksbane/d32.htm

...... +Susannah b: April 05, 1774 d: August 31, 1857 m: Bef. 1793

.. 2 Jesse Cary b: April 05, 1775 in Fishkill, Dutchess, NY d: April 18, 1864

...... +Philena Van Tassell

......... 3 Fluellen Cary b: 1803

.. 2 [2] Thomas Cary b: 1776 in Fishkill, Dutchess, NY d: February 22, 1841 in Nicholson, Wyoming, PA Source: For more on this line visit: www.weymouthtech.com/Genealogy/ps05/ps05_283.htm

...... +Lydia Rought

.. *2nd Wife of [2] Thomas Cary:

...... +Mary Smith m: December 05, 1801 in Fishkill, NY

.. 2 John Cary b: 1784 in Fishkill, Dutchess, NY d: July 13, 1844 in Fishkill, Dutchess, NY

...... +Polly Hilliker d: March 15, 1857 m: Abt. 1810

.. 2 Polly Cary b: 1788 d: April 10, 1850

...... +Samuel LaDue